If you have been feeling like it seems a lot harder to make friends without spending money, then you’re right. It is harder. It’s scary to put ourselves out there and trust someone. We would rather believe that we didn’t need friends and continue to isolate ourselves. It’s just not true. We really do all need friends in our lives for our mental and physical health. Having friends actually helps you live longer.
The Importance of Making Friends
Studies have shown that having just three friends can have a significant impact on your health and well being. The thing to remember is that there are different types of meaningful friendships. You might have friends that you talk to everyday or others once a week during an exercise class. Then there are those friends that you may not speak to for a couple months but when you do, the time melts away.
Ok so now you might be thinking that maybe you should try to make some new friends after all. Is this going to derail your budget? No, there are plenty of ways to put yourself out there. With a little effort, you will soon realize there are many different ways to make friends without spending any money.
Suggestions for Where to Make Friends Without Spending Money
- Exercise is a great way to meet people. Have you been wanting to starting jogging? How about a game of tennis or pickleball? Look for local meet ups on Facebook or call your recreation department to find out when groups meet. If that doesn’t interest you, check out local gyms or yoga studios. Many will offer a free class on the weekend or once a month.
- Churches are another way to get to know people. Join a bible study group that aligns with your beliefs.
- Are you a bookworm? Check with your library to find how to join a book club.
- Gardening clubs are a great way to meet people and serve your community.
- There are plenty of different volunteer organizations that would love to have you. Do a search to find out what is most meaningful to you.
You can do this! It’s so worth it. Pick one thing and decide when you are going to start. You are probably going to be nervous so plan ahead the day before. Set out your clothes and anything else you might need. Arrive ten minutes early. BREATHE! Be proud of yourself. You are doing something for yourself, even though it’s hard. So many good things are going to come from that.
